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  • Liebe Forenteilnehmer,

    Im Sinne einer respektvollen Forenkultur, werden die Moderatoren künftig noch stärker darauf achten, dass ein freundlicher Umgangston untereinander eingehalten wird. Unpassende Off-Topic Beiträge, Verunglimpfungen oder subtile bzw. direkte Provokationen und Unterstellungen oder abwertende Aussagen gegenüber Nutzern haben hier keinen Platz und werden nicht toleriert.

Mein Herz ist gebrochen...

Hi Leah,

wollte ich bei dir eigentlich auch schreiben *gg*. Ist ja gut, dass du das hier schon gelesen hast.

Dann sinnier mal drüber *lach* Ich drück mal lieb zurück.
 
Time to Restore

Time to Restore
Date: Monday, May 16, 2005
By: Bishop T. D. Jakes, Special to BlackAmericaWeb.com

Being in a relationship these days can be a traumatic experience. It seems that everybody’s going through something. People from every walk of life are encountering circumstances in their homes and personal lives far beyond anything you can imagine.

In fact, many of the people you work with, go to the club with or consider to be your friends are carrying the weight of an unspoken secret day after day. And surviving the effects of a paralyzing past relationship is probably one of the most difficult things to do.

If you could see into the hearts and minds of most people today you’d probably find a big question mark. Questions like: What happened? Where did I go wrong? Why did this happen to me? are looming in their heads.

Marriages are breaking up after 10, 15 and 20 years. The detrimental scars of emotional abuse, abandonment, adultery, incest and physical abuse haunt families for years, particularly women and children. These occurrences produce feelings of inadequacy, uncertainty and low self-esteem. And yet, night after night, some woman some where in the world assures her child that everything will be all right while wondering in her own mind whether things will ever truly be right again.

Statistics show that one out of every three women is molested between the ages of 5 and 15. Sixty percent of women grow up without their fathers. As a result, some crave the male attention and validation that they missed as children from the men they’re in relationships with now.

Many women bear the burden of bad memories and emotional trauma for years. Unfortunately, they allow their circumstances combined with flashbacks of childhood experiences to dictate their future. But that’s not the will of God!

Too many bad experiences, especially with members of the opposite gender, can lead to a spirit of bitterness which causes a woman to lose the fragrance and gentleness of her femininity. If she’s not careful, she will infiltrate the hearts of her daughters with the painful experiences of her past and even through her breast milk and daily conversation poison her sons with bitterness.

Now is the time to restore! It doesn’t matter where you’ve been, what you’ve done and what you’re going through, God loves you and He wants to give you His best. Get over it and move forward. Its time to embrace the new thing that God wants to do in your life now!

Changing your life begins with a decision to change. Once you’ve made the decision, you must also change your focus, way of thinking and the company you keep. Repent for the things you’ve done and ask God to cleanse you from the devastating effects of a painful past.

Forget those things that are behind you and move forward to the bright destiny God has for you. No matter who or what you’ve lost, God will give you double for your trouble and joy everlasting (Isaiah 61:7). Its time to restore and it can begin today!

This excerpt was taken from Woman, Thou Art Loosed at MegaFest 2004. Hear Bishop T.D. Jakes’ timeless message of God’s way to hope at MegaFest 2005.
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Living Through Dying Places
Date: Monday, September 12, 2005
By: Bishop T. D. Jakes, Special to BlackAmericaWeb.com

Have you ever been at a place in your life where it seemed that all hell was breaking loose? I mean it was so bad that you felt you had activated Murphy’s Law which states, “What ever can go wrong will go wrong,” and there was absolutely nothing you could do about it except go through it?

There are times in life when we feel that our circumstances are completely out of control. While there are things that we can do to prevent certain things from happening in our lives, we must also recognize that there is a process already in motion that cannot be avoided. God orchestrates this process, and although life’s twists and turns may not be pleasant, we have to believe that the end result will be.

The 23rd Psalm is a very familiar passage. But for the sake of making this point, I will only extract verses 4 – 6.

“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.”

Difficult situations can sometimes affect us so negatively that we feel that we are “walking through the valley of the shadow of death.” Death is a cold and isolated place where we must endure the reality of separation from some thing or person. Once you get to the other side, however, you eventually realize why you had to go through all the things you went through.

Living through the dying places is the key to overcoming them and finding peace of mind. On the other side is a table already prepared just for you. On the other side is a fresh anointing of increase to the point of overflow. On the other side is goodness, mercy and a place of stability that can only be found in God.

The good thing about “going through” and getting “on the other side” is that after you’ve done it, life’s circumstances no longer affect you the same. The mere fact that you went through it strengthens you for the next journey.

Getting to the other side requires focus. Sometimes you literally have to close the windows, turn off the phone and omit television altogether. You have to shut out every opportunity of distraction. Even the people you know and love have to be shunned at times because you don’t have the time to entertain curious people.

This excerpt was taken from the series entitled Living Through Dying Places.
 
*löl* Jamie - und selbst WENN man englisch versteht - hört sich eher wie ne PREDIGT an denn eine Hilfe....

Kopfschüttelnde Grüße
von Leah
(die sich nicht unbedingt zum "blackamericaweb" zählt)
 
Hi Jamie,gleiche Frage habe ich mir auch gerade gestellt,bist mir zuvor gekommen,nehmen wirs einfach so hin.Amen
 
Leah meinte:
*löl* Jamie - und selbst WENN man englisch versteht - hört sich eher wie ne PREDIGT an denn eine Hilfe....

Kopfschüttelnde Grüße
von Leah

grins leah...
aber interessieren würds mich schon. will ja nicht sagen dass ich neugierig bin *gggg*aber.....ICH WILLS WISSEN!!

grummelz
 

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